Who is blowing this out of proportion and causing drama??
After the following info, she went into a public forum and basically accused me of causing drama. I'm not sure whether I should lay into her or ignore it.
Original Message
May 26 at 10:12am from B:
I may be being sensitive and a touch edgy with all my health issues, but I can't help but notice that many of your comments on my pictures and status are less than positive.
You have a great sense of humor and I adore you. I'm probably being sensitive but my feelings are starting to get hurt.
Any chance you could tone it down until I'm not all raw and infirmed? By the way, great suggestion about the OT. I have an appt. to see one.
S.
May 26 at 10:21am
I'll not comment any more.
B.
May 26 at 7:43pm
S., I see that you've removed all your comments and that you said you are taking a break from facebook. I'm sorry if what I said offended you but I can't help the way I feel.
I didn't think it would be a big deal for me to try and talk to you about it. I'm sorry if I caught you on a bad day or something, I sure don't want to be the reason you aren't facebooking and keeping up with people.
As friends, and happily re-connected, I really just thought we could talk about it.
Again, I didn't mean to upset or offend you but just let you know how I felt, not push you away.
S
May 26 at 10:28pm
B. I'm not staying off facebook with all of my friends, just these threads. I'm a direct person. Enough with the touchy feely. What upset you? With out specifics, I don't know what upset you so greatly. I'm not commenting on your photos or status for now. YES, I did remove my comments. I wish I could have gotten them all removed but time did not allow. Don't recant your feelings. If something hurt you that much it did. The end. I took measure to remove contents that caused your hurt. That's all. It wasn't out of anger or spite. It's cause and effect. You were hurt by something. I removed it.
If you are hurt because I don't agree with the gothic, graphic and horrific items in your house I am sorry. I think it is frightening. I regret posting the comment but it wasn't to be hurtful. It is very much graphic and I think I just worry about you one day having children in that environment. I know I would never bring my children to visit as that is not the exposures I want them to have.
Other than that, I don't know what to say.
B
Today at 10:10am
Actually no, it had nothing to do with the horror memorabilia. And I'm not recanting, you did hurt my feelings by posting that I was stupid for forgetting to eat breakfast among a few other things, which you seemed to know which ones to delete first.
It seems that whether I have a werewolf or roosters or birdbaths none of them were suitable to you. It's been a string of comments you posted on a picture or my status or anything like that has made me wonder what I did to deserve that.
I know we are different. But I didn't think that was a big deal. I suppose in the end it is.
Here's the thing about children. I don't have any. No children are exposed to what you call a graphic environment. When my sister brings the kids we put up anything that might scare them, I'm not without any sensitivity to other people's feelings.
I wasn't going to say anything to you at all until someone else asked me why you posted such "mean spirited" things on my page. That's how I knew it wasn't just me being overly sensitive. And with you going straight to me not having children, well.... that kind of proves their point.
All I did was say something was bothering me, ask you to stop and move on. Which in my mind was the mature thing to do.
Goodbye, S.
S.
Today at 10:32am
I'm not responding. Regardless of what I say you are hurt. I'm not attacking you that you don't have kids. I WANT you to have kids, healthy babies as many as you can stand. I'm not however going to go back and forth with you trying to convince you none was intended on hurting you. I'll accept your Goodbye. You, too.
Original Message
May 26 at 10:12am from B:
I may be being sensitive and a touch edgy with all my health issues, but I can't help but notice that many of your comments on my pictures and status are less than positive.
You have a great sense of humor and I adore you. I'm probably being sensitive but my feelings are starting to get hurt.
Any chance you could tone it down until I'm not all raw and infirmed? By the way, great suggestion about the OT. I have an appt. to see one.
S.
May 26 at 10:21am
I'll not comment any more.
B.
May 26 at 7:43pm
S., I see that you've removed all your comments and that you said you are taking a break from facebook. I'm sorry if what I said offended you but I can't help the way I feel.
I didn't think it would be a big deal for me to try and talk to you about it. I'm sorry if I caught you on a bad day or something, I sure don't want to be the reason you aren't facebooking and keeping up with people.
As friends, and happily re-connected, I really just thought we could talk about it.
Again, I didn't mean to upset or offend you but just let you know how I felt, not push you away.
S
May 26 at 10:28pm
B. I'm not staying off facebook with all of my friends, just these threads. I'm a direct person. Enough with the touchy feely. What upset you? With out specifics, I don't know what upset you so greatly. I'm not commenting on your photos or status for now. YES, I did remove my comments. I wish I could have gotten them all removed but time did not allow. Don't recant your feelings. If something hurt you that much it did. The end. I took measure to remove contents that caused your hurt. That's all. It wasn't out of anger or spite. It's cause and effect. You were hurt by something. I removed it.
If you are hurt because I don't agree with the gothic, graphic and horrific items in your house I am sorry. I think it is frightening. I regret posting the comment but it wasn't to be hurtful. It is very much graphic and I think I just worry about you one day having children in that environment. I know I would never bring my children to visit as that is not the exposures I want them to have.
Other than that, I don't know what to say.
B
Today at 10:10am
Actually no, it had nothing to do with the horror memorabilia. And I'm not recanting, you did hurt my feelings by posting that I was stupid for forgetting to eat breakfast among a few other things, which you seemed to know which ones to delete first.
It seems that whether I have a werewolf or roosters or birdbaths none of them were suitable to you. It's been a string of comments you posted on a picture or my status or anything like that has made me wonder what I did to deserve that.
I know we are different. But I didn't think that was a big deal. I suppose in the end it is.
Here's the thing about children. I don't have any. No children are exposed to what you call a graphic environment. When my sister brings the kids we put up anything that might scare them, I'm not without any sensitivity to other people's feelings.
I wasn't going to say anything to you at all until someone else asked me why you posted such "mean spirited" things on my page. That's how I knew it wasn't just me being overly sensitive. And with you going straight to me not having children, well.... that kind of proves their point.
All I did was say something was bothering me, ask you to stop and move on. Which in my mind was the mature thing to do.
Goodbye, S.
S.
Today at 10:32am
I'm not responding. Regardless of what I say you are hurt. I'm not attacking you that you don't have kids. I WANT you to have kids, healthy babies as many as you can stand. I'm not however going to go back and forth with you trying to convince you none was intended on hurting you. I'll accept your Goodbye. You, too.
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