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I know But I cant Say :(
Me(21) and my BF(24) have a general rule about not sharing passwords just to maintain a bit of our privacy and we are ok with that.
We have been in the relation for 1 n half years and are thinking of marriage in a few years.
A week back, he used my laptop to access his account and forgot to log out. Later, on discovering this, I couldnt keep my curiosity in control( I sooo regret it) and saw his achived chats and mails.
Basically what I discovered that he flirts with this one particular online female friend mostly; saying the same kind of things he used to say to me or like telling her that he bought something which I might have gifted him (to impress her). He is not into some dirty flirting with her but the way he chats as if he is really concerned and worried about her and is like her real good friend. He also invites her to movies(but the girl says she can't). He hasnt told her about me n also told her he is single.
I cant confront him becuase then I will have to tell him I saw his email account.
Should I be worried about my relation??
We have been in the relation for 1 n half years and are thinking of marriage in a few years.
A week back, he used my laptop to access his account and forgot to log out. Later, on discovering this, I couldnt keep my curiosity in control( I sooo regret it) and saw his achived chats and mails.
Basically what I discovered that he flirts with this one particular online female friend mostly; saying the same kind of things he used to say to me or like telling her that he bought something which I might have gifted him (to impress her). He is not into some dirty flirting with her but the way he chats as if he is really concerned and worried about her and is like her real good friend. He also invites her to movies(but the girl says she can't). He hasnt told her about me n also told her he is single.
I cant confront him becuase then I will have to tell him I saw his email account.
Should I be worried about my relation??
best answer by GreyBeard...
There are now over 130 posts to this question, and not one person ever addressed her question. This is the 7th post to this question and SHE asked a very pointed question:
GreyBeard replies...
then its not cheating, its called shopping. and you need to step up your game and reel him back in. DO NOT TELL HIM YOU SAW HIS EMAILS.
genie replies...
ideas and advice needed
She has clearly stated that she wants to get him back, the question is how. NO ONE cares at this point if he is a cheater anymore(and yet the next 100 posts revolve over that issue), she wants to know how to reel him back in. Continuing to call him a cheater does not help this person save her relationship. WAKE UP. She wants him back, nothing else matters now. cheater or not, exclusive or not, she wants him back and wants to know how to get him back !!!
How do you help her get him back by calling him a cheater ?!?!?!?!?
There are now over 130 posts to this question, and not one person ever addressed her question. This is the 7th post to this question and SHE asked a very pointed question:
GreyBeard replies...
then its not cheating, its called shopping. and you need to step up your game and reel him back in. DO NOT TELL HIM YOU SAW HIS EMAILS.
genie replies...
ideas and advice needed
She has clearly stated that she wants to get him back, the question is how. NO ONE cares at this point if he is a cheater anymore(and yet the next 100 posts revolve over that issue), she wants to know how to reel him back in. Continuing to call him a cheater does not help this person save her relationship. WAKE UP. She wants him back, nothing else matters now. cheater or not, exclusive or not, she wants him back and wants to know how to get him back !!!
How do you help her get him back by calling him a cheater ?!?!?!?!?

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