am i spoiling him or just doing what i am suppose too.

i stay home and raise my 9mo son, he doesnt really get to much exposure with other people, hes mainly with me the majority of the time. he loves to play with other children, he pogress acording to every ones guidelines as far as crawling and playing. he hasnt had any issues with his teeth and when they grew in. he is an all around good and happy baby. but every one says he is spoiled because he loves to be all over me and he love for me to play with him. it hurts my feelings when people say that because i dont understand what they expect me to do. should i just leave him in his room for hours on end. i dont want to treat my child bad because evry one feel like they need to put there two cents in.