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How should we split the housework? My "Mr. Mom)husband is dumping the majority on me!
My husband stays at home with the kids (he does not have a job) I work all week. I enjoy time with the kids in the evening. But the hose becomes a nightmare because I am exhausted from work, then occupied with roudy toddlers (they get difficult later in the day). Husband does not cook anymore, he wants me to do the dishes. Then when I get home from work, he leaves (to hang out with the guys). He spends most of the weekend with his buddies, and I am stuck with the kids all weekend too. I am lonely and feel overwhelmed. My daughter (14 mos old) is difficult to please. I have asked for him to see a marriage councelor, but he refuses. I don't want us to end up with a divorce, but I am so very disappointed in this relationship. I desperately need a solution.
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Your husband needs a reality check, you need to kick him out for a month and I think he would get the picture. Tell him what you need from him as a partner! He sounds so immature.
Marriage with young children is tough. And when one in carrying the load it is really tough. I did it for years and finally wised up. My husband was an alcoholic and I could never depend on him. I did it all earned the money, took care of the kids, handled all the issues and household bills etc... He was like having a third child.
Now 9 yrs divorced it was the BEST thing
Some men are just CHILDREN in disquise! Selfish which is what your husband sounds like. It's all about them.
Your husband needs a reality check, you need to kick him out for a month and I think he would get the picture. Tell him what you need from him as a partner! He sounds so immature.
Marriage with young children is tough. And when one in carrying the load it is really tough. I did it for years and finally wised up. My husband was an alcoholic and I could never depend on him. I did it all earned the money, took care of the kids, handled all the issues and household bills etc... He was like having a third child.
Now 9 yrs divorced it was the BEST thing
Some men are just CHILDREN in disquise! Selfish which is what your husband sounds like. It's all about them.
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