Sexless In Seattle

"My wife and I have been married for 11 years and have 2 children. My wife and I share the parenting, cooking, housework, errands and other duties. While I work full time (leave at 6:00 am return at 5:00 pm) my wife work 2-3 days a week (mostly evenings) and gets the kids to school during the day.
For the past few years, we have been making love less and less (once every 2 months). I am still very attracted to her, love her dearly and try to make her feel special with hugs and kisses here and there. While she has never been the most affectionate (childhood upbringing issues) I miss the time we would spend together. While she can always stay awake late to read the Twilight Series (3 times now) and watch her favorite shows until 11:00 pm, she seems to have no interest in working on "us" or making love. She is an amazing mother and I appreciate all that she does for our family, but if we continue this way the kids will leave home and we will be 2 strangers staring at each other wondering what went wrong....view more"