Sneeky-pete!!

"So... I've been dating this guy for a few months... even said the (L) word... and things are going wonderfully!!

Well... one day he leaves me at his apt (I work 2nd shift) while he went to work in the morning. I'm female... so I admit I started snooping... Well, I got on his computer and found he has saved his password to Facebook to Windows, and I broke in...

I found an email that was dated Feb. 17th (I found it in April) and we started dating at the end of January/first of Feb... Written to another female. They had been very busy with communicating... She was upset he was dating me, and I guess I had ruined her plans of a white-picket fence and kids with him. And she ended her last email with "well, I hope she makes you happy." His response was "She doesn't... No one will but you..." He also says that he can only think of her when he's awake, and dreams of her at night, and wants to have her in his arms, blah blah blah...

I confront him about it, and he says it was a mistake and in FACT they've NEVER met... it was an online romance. I make the decision (since it was several months later that I found it...) to stay.

We have now been talking about marriage, and recently moved in together, and have been house shopping. THEN... just a few weeks ago, I was searching through his phone (he was acting strange, and it threw up red flags...) and I found texts from this same female! He swears he was telling her he wanted to be with me and how happy he was.

SO... I hunted her on facebook, and found her profile, and sent her an email confronting her on the issue... As it turns out she lives in TN with her boyfriend of over a year... She claims no knowledge of him telling her he wanted to be with me.

Am I being way too snoopy? OR can I not trust him?...view more"