It's Not Like I'm Dating A Hooker

My girlfriend recently asked a HUGE favor. I was a little reluctant to help, so she said "Tell you what: you help me and and I'll give you whatever you want in bed tonight."

To me, this goes against everything a relationship is built on. Sex is something two people do together; not something one person does to get a favor. And she shouldn't act like having sex is some kind of selfless service to me cause I know she likes it too.

Bottom line: Sex is a two person activity. If sex is something she's thinks she's doing FOR me, I'm not interested.