So my boyfriend of 2 years is your typical bad boy - he rides motorcycles, has a bunch of tattoos, works out, etc. I love his type.
My problem is anytime he gets in trouble - a bar fight, speeding ticket, money - he uses me as his person to lean on. I'm either his alibi, witness, or loan. This used to be ok. I had less confidence then and just having this big strong guy was great for me. Now, though I love him, it is getting to be too much.
He doesn't think he does this to me. He thinks it's ok to ask me for money to pay a fine or lie to someone to get him out of trouble. I know what you're thinking...get rid of him cos he's not worth the trouble. The problem is aside from his faults he IS a good guy.
I just think he needs to understand he needs to grow up a little and take better care of me and his own life. He shrugs off his problems and lets them lie.
If anything, let him know that leaning on me for support of his habitual troubles are not my problem.
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