You Won't Find Us Interesting

Unlike the other stories, ours is pretty boring. I am a programmer. She is a librarian.

My main problem is all we do is watch TV together and nothing else. Summer's been a bust (at least the new seasons are starting). Basically, I want more of a sex life. She's content with sitting on the couch then going to bed early. While I've expressed my biggest fantasies to her, she feels they would be demeaning to her and shrugs me off.

Don't you think she should at least experiment to find out if they are demeaning (and no, I'm not going into the fantasy details).