Is Hands-Only A Replacement?

We have been married for 33 years and we have 3 grown children. We were
high school sweethearts and we have only been with each other. Sex never came easy to her but we worked through most of the issues over the years however it has been my constant romancing and attention that has keep it going. She really never has put much effort into our sexual relationship. About
2 years ago she started to encourgage hand jobs for me. She made them fun
and sexy but over time that is all we do. She now says intercourse hurts and she never had an orgasm with penetration, ever. So now all we do is oral sex for her and hand jobs for me. She does not wish to talk about it and just hopes and prays I will accept the status quo. I think there is more to it than she is letting on
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