"This is the Marriage Ref on steroids!"
- random internet user
"It's my responsibility to pay off my debt. It was accrued well before marriage, she shouldn't have to pay it off. I'll pay it off in my own time. Its not delinquent and will get paid eventually, so why does it have to be done NOW? "
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"We got the house without the debt being paid off. The collection call was due to a payment program I was on that had ended and I was not aware the minimum payment had gone back up because they declined to send me notice. We aren't going to be struggling with the payment each month. I can pay over the minimum payment, I just wanted a lower interest rate, so I asked for a payment program.
Babe, I just don't want to take the money you worked hard for before this marriage away from you. Just as much as I don't want you to have to pay for my idiotic choices. "
"My husband had about $4000 in credit card debt before we were married. I was aware of this and always tried to help out. We were both laid off a few months before our marriage, but I had plenty of money in savings to cover necessities and to help him out with his bills.
He now has only about half that amount in debt, but still refuses to let me help. I just want this debt gone and if he allowed me to pay some of it off, it would be gone already!
He insists that it was HIS debt before we were...view more"
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