I chose to use sidetakers to get a question answered. Most of the people I asked seem to all think the same. The question was about my man dissappearing for hours at a time without letting me know where he was going. The consensus seemed to be that he was cheating on me and had me believing that nothing was going on. As a result I started believing that he did have another woman.
I had him followed and even had a friend try to get him to cheat. My man is either telling me the truth or is a very professional cheater. Inviting him to this forum is either going to be the smartest thing I ever did or the stupidest move I ever made.
He has invited me to tag along but we do not work the same hours and when he dissappears I only find out when gets home. I have repeatedly asked the same questions and informed him of the picture he presents and get the same answers.
My hope is I can improve our relationship and I am ready to deal with the consequences of my honesty. Updates
The consequences of my actions are pretty clear. I am now single and lonely. I guess I knew from the start he was unwilling to change and pushing him only made him more stubborn. My hope is to get back together but I can only wait and hope.
updated 4 years ago