My husband and I have known each other since 2002. And lived together for 4 years.
I have lived away from my mother and sisters for 8 years now and am starting to want to move closer to them, the only problem is they are on the other side of the country.
His mother doesn't even like him living 3 hours away so she would like us living over 3000km's away. I just don't think its fair we can go to see his family whenever because its only a 3 hour drive, to go see my family is at least a 4 hour plane trip which isn't cheap.
my question is do we stay closer to his family for the sake of keeping his mother happy, or do we move closer to my family to keep me happy??