"Where Do We Live Drama's"

We have lived where we have lived for 4 years now.

My parents are 3 hours away by a car trip and hers are 4 hours away by a plane.
The reason i don't want to move is that there is no point being in one place or the other.

Where we are right now is accessible to both if we move then i will no longer be able to see my family as it will be a 4 hour plane trip, cost of a hire car and 3 hour car trip there and three hour car trip back.

It just seems easier to save up the money to fly to see her family 3 or so times a year and still be able to see my family once every couple of months.

I don't think its unreasonable and do understand she misses her family but they can pay to fly over here to if they really miss her that much too but they don't!