Feels Less Desirable
I love my girlfriend but she never wants sex at the right times. She wants it at like 11 o'clock at night when I'm tired and I have to wake up early in the morning. If she would want it early I could give it to her but she generally wants it right before we go to bed because after she goes right to sleep and I'm up the rest of the night.
I wouldn't say I'm addicted to sex but every other day would be nice. Everytime I try to turn on my boyfriend he complains that he's tired, doesn't feel good, or he just doesn't want to. To me the fact that he doesn't want to have sex with me suggest that I'm not a desirable anymore and it really has lowered my self esteem.
We've been dating for about 3 years and the first two years we were having sex none stop. Now I'm lucky to get some twice a week if I'm lucky.