I asked him to have the dishwasher fixed. He told me I already had my tubes tied.
Apparently he gets mean and becomes a giant profanity when I ask my hubby to do the dishes or get the dishwasher fixed. It's like I asked him to cure cancer. I can't get him to lift a finger unless I threaten divorce. He gives me a smug answer like it's not his job. We both work and he feels his domain is outside only. Of course he pays our son to mow the lawn and wash our cars as allowance. This does not apply to indoor chores - he only has to clean his room. Niether of them hep with laundry, cook, or clean up after dinner. I'm fighting windmills and it sucks. I just think he's not listening to me but he feels justified. He's wrong to think this. Right?