The EX That Won't Go Away!

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"Man she's trippin'! I told her I had some sh*t to work out when we first started dating but I'm over that B***h! I will NEVER go back with her. She left me for another man and I told her a long time ago if she ever did that it would be over for good and it is. I really dig Cyndi! I wish she believed me. She needs to trust me! "

New Side Updates
"I was so drunk out of my mind last night and she knows it. We had been arguing about the ex all night and I took a couple of pills to chill along with the drinks we were drinking. She knows I was wasted. I really love her and don't want to lose her and I'm so sorry! Please don't leave me I NEED YOU!!

Cyndi you are the BEST thing that has ever happened to me! I want to spend the rest of my life with you! I LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU'LL EVER KNOW!!!

I've told the ex that she is causing problems with Cyndi and to stop calling. She says to tell Cyndi to grow up but she has stopped calling so much. The ex and I still have bills together and she calls to remind me to pay it or see if I've paid it. I think she's happy where she's at right now and has finally moved on. The ex was there for me through some really hard times and we will always care about each other. I think the ex is still in love with me but she is accepting the fact that I have moved on. We were split up when she met the guy she's with now so she didn't cheat on me. I do think me and the ex can be friends now and it shouldn't bother Cyndi that we are. I understand that Cyndi feels threatened but there really isn't any reason to be. Cyndi has an ex husband and he calls every day but she says it's because of their kids. If she doesn't trust me then why should I trust her. She's told me that her ex husband used to call all the time trying to get her to sleep with him. She said she didn't sleep with him but who knows. "

His Side

Jimmie

"I've been seeing Jim for a couple of months now. We've gotten really serious and I'm really falling for him. The only problem is his ex!! She calls him constantly! Everytime we've seen each other she has called. I told him it was really starting to bother me because she doesn't want anything, just wants to talk. He usually doesn't talk for long, probably because he tells her he's with me and can't talk so they hang up. She broke up with him and is now living with someone else. She's not telling her boyfriend that she's calling Jim and that bothers me because I think she wants to get back together with Jim. Jim says she didn't want him back until him and I started seeing each other. Jim says he will never go back with her but they were together for six years and have a lot of history togehter. They just broke up five months before Jim and I met so I should have known better to get involved with being the "rebound girl". I told Jim to decide what he wants, it's me or his friendship with her. I think they talk a lot more than what he's telling me and that's why she calls him everytime we are together. Why can't she just leave us alone so we can have a chance to be happy together? Appartently she's not happy with her current boyfriend otherwise why would she be calling Jim all the time. I'm about over this whole situation and don't think I'm over-reacting like Jim seems to think. I know he would be upset if some guy was texting me saying "can you talk?" while I was with him. I think I'm right by telling him it's her or me! I don't care how long they were together, why does he still want to be friends with her, she dumped him for someone else?"

New Side Updates
"We were having sex last night and he called me her name! He is full of #!@%*! Apparently he is still in love with her! He keeps telling me he loves me and he wants me, WTFE!!"