Is This Cheating? I Think So...

Dating: Boyfriend vs. Girlfriend

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"She's crazy for lookin in my damn phone! Why are all girls so jealous. I worked with this girl for 4 years and we're friends. she's fun to talk to and i knew if i told my girl, she would get jealous and be like is she more fun than me? is she pretty? blah blah.

I told her I never cheated on her and I never will and she's giving me attitude. I'm almost tired of it."

New Side Updates
"Yeah, she's going tooooo far with this lack of trust. Plus she has guy friends she talks to!!! And all guys want is sex. Why should I trust her with them?"

His Side

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"A week ago I was checking through my boyfriend's cell phone and found a number I've never seen before. He has been applying for new jobs and at first I thought it was a job recruiter. I was still curious so I called.

A girl answered and said "what's up sauce? how's the ball traetin' ya?" in a cutesy voice and I hung up I now realized it was this girl from his old job that he told me about that called him sauce when he dropped a piece of pizza in his lap.

He said she wasn't cute but she sounded cute on the phone and it sounded like they've been talking. If he thought that then why didn't he tell me he called her? And why isn't her number in his phone list (he typed it in).

I think it's cheating and I'm mad about it. He says it's innocent."

New Side Updates
"I checked his phone records and they talk or text almost everyday! I guess I got to his phone before he deleted them. I didn't see any texts but I bet they're sweet :("