Wife Allowed 17 Year Old Daughter To Go To Calif

The father of this child actually wants to know where she is at all times !!! He even got Sprint Family Locator so he can spy on our children !! When I was out of town our daughter got arrested and he found her at the police station and she didn't even call him !! If I had told him that she wanted to go away with her boyfriend he would have said no, or there would have been a spanish inquisition, he would have wanted addresses, phone number and actually wanted to talk to the parents !! 17 and 1 day is close enuff to 18 and she should be able to have all the freedom in the world !! Needless to say I did file for a divorce and out daughter did get a tatoo and run away for 5 days ( I knew where she was the whole time) and has turned 18 and doesn't speak to her father and probably never will.