Chosen Right nosey1 (side 2)
"Before i start this, the biggest problem is communication. She likes to send mixed signals, letting you to think everything while its not, no matter how much I ask or try to help she just shuts off. If she would just open her mouth 99% of any of our problems wouldn't exist. anyway, its a Thursday, and usually once I get done with practice and study hall my girl comes over, except tonight its one of my teammates 21st birthday so everybody in my room wants to go out, knowing that my girl always comes over they promise we wont stay long. So i text my girl and let her know i wouldn't be back til around 1. When I riding with my teamate to the get together I get a text from her saying "I don't wanna know what happened", so of course I ask and about 20-30 minutes later she says her car window was broken, so i ask if things are alright and what was taken; she mentioned nothing serious was taken and the car was fine. I felt concerned but at the same time figured she would've called had it been serious enough, so i text asking where she was at because I was going to have my ride turn around and take me back to my car so I could go make sure she was alright, needless to say at least 45 minutes go by and I don't get a response . So I text saying I take it you must be fine since your not responding to me, instead of letting me know where she was at so I could go over she casually says "I'm getting your texts late", reading this I assume the situation must not be a big deal...at this point I'm thinking I should go check, but at the same time I'm wondering why wouldn't she say anything if she needs my assistance. I decide to let it be and we'll just catch up once she comes over. Since she acted so casually about everything, I assume everything is alright, I ask if she is fine and she just says "she is tired". I try to ask other questions but she doesnt respond, so I let it be and go to sleep.
New Side Updates
" I could have and probably should have been the bigger man and called to check, even though she gave the impression things were fine.
I failed to mention, my girl loves to blow things out of proportion, this being exhibit A. Had she simply stopped texting the conversation and instead just called, I would have been there asap like I was attempting to and this would've have all been avoided. Also her side of the story would lead you to believe she's is here without friends or family, not true she has both. I know I'm at a disadvantage due to her emotional appeal, but I'm always here for her. We all know you cant help somebody who doesnt want to be helped. At no point did she mention or give the impression that it was that serious of a situation....view more"
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