"My Wife Cannot Stop Buying"

Hello. My husband Andrew thinks I spoil my youngest son too much but I don't think I do! I have 4 children and I treat them all the same.

I probably do cater to my youngest a little bit more and when my 3 older children are naughty I obviously don't buy them anything.

I haven't bought my son 6 walkers. 4 of them were bought for him from other people.

I never had many toys as a child and I want my son to have lovely educational toys which I buy him. My argument is my husband wont think nothing of spending $700 on an air rifle, going out down town, or going out for a meal but when I spend $20 or $30 on a toy for my son he moans.

As long as the bills are all paid and the holiday is too I don't know why he moans about it. Sometimes I'll get my son a toy and he won't like it so I'll take it back and get him something else instead so that's just replacing it - not adding to the collection of toys.

I have been trying for over 5 years for another baby and I was told I probably couldn't have any more so when I finally became pregnant with my son I was so happy.

I take my daughters to the hairdressers. My other son has expensive designer glasses that I bought and he goes to football matches all the time so they do have a lot spent on them, but they don't want for nothing.

I don't see what the problem is. I could understand if the bills weren't being paid because of me buying him new toys He said to me as long as the holiday is paid weekly whatever I do with the rest of my money is up to me but it isn't because when I buy something I have to hide it somewhere so I don't get ear ache!!