"He's At It Again!"

"I have been married to my husband Brian for 27 years. He's always been busy and helpful in the neighbourhood, however, recently Brian has been behaving in a very stange fashion. My neighbour Maxine was sitting at the table when I got home last Wednesday, the front door was slightly ajar so I let myself in quietly as there was no latch sound. Maxine was sitting with her back towards the hall, she was moaning slightly, at first I thought she was stroking the cat, but on further inspection I noticed Brian's head bobbling just in front of her at waist level. At this point I tripped over the cat (the one I thought Maxine was stroking) and both Brian and Maxine jumped to their feet. Maxine ran for the door and Brian has refused to talk to me about it, simply saying 'it's all in your head, don't you trust me?'. Since then Brian has been sleeping on the sofa and each time I broach the subject he refuses to talk about it. The trouble is my mind has been full of past incidents that at the time I brushed aside any doubt about his intentions, but the more I think about it I am starting to think he has been playing away. For instance, when he put aside one evening a week for three monhts in order to errect a shelf in Pauline's kitchen, and the other time where he gave Mrs Higgins a lift to the WI every Tuesday evening between March 2002 and Apri 2004. After 27 years of marriage I want to trust him but my instinct tells me that I shouldn't and I should kick him him out. Please advise me what I should do, I feel in total despair. Thank you
Ange

New Side Updates
"Brian I think the results speak for themselves don't you? Being in hospital for the last 5 days has really made me think, even though I have temporarily lost my short term memory, I can still think Brian! Also my memory is improving all the time even if a little hazy, I am not stupid Brian.


I saw the way you looked at that nurse 'Sonia' when you came to visit me yesterday, what was it you put in her hand? I saw you and I saw the way you smiled at her! You really have a nerve don't you. But if you think you are something think again, when you smiled a dribble of saliva came out of the edge of your mouth, you looked like a dirty old man, that's what I saw, a dirty old man chatting up a 23 year old nurse, you should be ashamed of yourself, I most certainly am.

I am just so cross right now. I wasn't going to bother updating but since coming out of hospital and being crippled with my ankle you still continue to go out. Where are you going Brian? yesterday you went to get a loaf of bread at 2pm and you returned at 9pm with lipstick on your collar...or was it really rust from the fire engine you said you had helped push up Crannolk Hill when Maggie was trapped in her car? And how come you were that side of town? Anyway I thought Maggie had gone to Stoke.

Melanie said she wouldn't be surprised if you had left the tool box at the top of the stairs on purpose....you knew I was in the bath you bloody idiot.

As for nurse Sonia, she told me you had given her a voucher for Avon, you back doing that again are you? Why Avon Brian???

Update 11.3.09

Last night we talked over dinner, you told me you loved me and I should trust you, you said alot of what I have said over the last few days has been 'all in my head'. You then told me you were going to pop to the shop, 7 hours 35 minutes later you came home and THEN wanted sex!!! What the hell was that about?

Whilst you were gone the phone rang, when I picked up the person put the phone down, I dialled 1473 and when I dialled the number a woman answered, do you know who it was? It was a woman from the Samaritans. If you want to talk, talk to me NOT the Samaritans, how do you think that made me feel? OK I know we are using Sidetakers but thats different, My friend Wendy (name changed) is a Samaritan, god knows what she would think if she got wind of this.

I urge you to look at the votes, you don't have to be Einstein to see who is looking a first class pratt, or do you really have the brain of a newborn chimp?

Update 14.3.09

Plumbers and xmas party 2003? How low. Ok I had a thing for Phil the plumber, and yes the xmas party in 2003 made me realise I was a woman, a sexual and passionate woman. Our sex life has never been great, christmas 2003 proved that.

I do take Roger (dog) for a longer walk than usual, is that a crime? But as for calling me a slut, Brian, I am so disappointed in you, you have hurt me beyond belief.

Just go Brian, I can't take it anymore.

update 18th March

Brian if you read this please PLEASE contact me, have tried your mobile, work, snooker hall but no one has seen you, yet you continue to commment on other sides. I love you please come home. There's a fruit cake in the tin and your special sauce in your usual tray in the fridge, your socks are rolled into balls as you like and the TV Times unmarked X A X

Update Saturday
Brian I see you have added comments on several sights so you are still alive. Remember when you disappeared for 2 weeks in 1987? Do you remember what you put me through? You told me you would never ever do that again, I was distraught and had to be sectioned and you left me there in that goodforsaken hospital whilst they drugged me up and stuck needles in my backside.

I doubt the readers believe what they are reading, I am ashamed of this scam of a marriage, I am ashamed that I have put up with so much, and then having to read your flirty comments, or comments telling women to 'take pride in themselves', good lord Brian, you should be ashamed!!

I have left your belongings with Pauline who, incidently, tells me you are a laughing stock in the village with your deluded thoughts that you are somehow sexy to all women. I have filed for divorce, it's a shame it's taken going on Side Taker to view what people think of you to make this decision, but at least I have come to my senses now rather than later. I want to thank all readers for being so honest, you may have saved my life if not my dignity.
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