what do I do with a husband who is very selfish? He does nothing to help our marriage or to help our son.

My husband does nothing with our son but video games. He doesn't sign him up for sports, he doesn't get involved with any of his activities (ie: church, friends, etc). He bad mouths me in front of our son. He under minds everything good I try to instill into our son. We can't afford to live apart. I mentally can't live with him. Any advice?
By rant 9 years ago :: Marriage
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