should i keep trying or let it go and move on???

my husband and father my kids, and i recently seperated a few mths ago, though we love each other we had alot of issues. i cheated on him 3 1/2 yrs ago and at that point didn't really care about the relationship working anymore, but in the past yr i have done everything i can think of to make it up to him. he tells me he still loves me but is not "in love" with me anymore and just doesnt want to rush things but he still only sees himself with me for the rest of his life, but then on some days he acts as if he could careless. it's like a love bi-polar, if you can understand what i mean. basically, should i keep trying or move on???? i love him , but this is hurting me deeply!
By missme 9 years ago :: Marriage
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