Should my 43 yr Fiance be jealous of my 3 yr old granddaughter?

We took custody of my granddaughter a year ago. My Fiance tells me she wants me to be "on" for her like i am for my granddaughter. I was made aware of this and tried really hard to be to take notice when it happened. I feel that my granddaughter needs the extra attention at this time in her life since she didn't have much with her parents. My fiance says when i want a relationship with a "Woman" not a child............then call her. Am I wrong to feel my granddaughter needs more now?
By pro32 9 years ago :: Parent/Child
  • Carol Cohen
    MSW,ACSW,LMSW
    Licensed Psychotherapist, Author, Relationship Expert Seen on Oprah. With 25 years of experience, I provide caring, honest, non-judgmental help for your relationship issues. $3.49/minute
       4.91/5
  • Rafael Morales
    MA-MS, MHT-MHRS
    I have extensive training and expertise in clinical, counseling, transpersonal/integral psychology and coaching. I provide support to those willing to work on themselves… $2.75/minute
       4.84/5
  • View More Experts
    16