I don't enjoy sex with my husband anymore=(

I'm not attracted to my husband as much anymore. He has to finger me in order for me to get an orgasm and most of the times I have to be watching porn or pretend like he's someone else. When it's my turn to pleasure him I pretend like the sex is good but the whole time I just want him to cum so that I could go to bed. What should I do, he's a good man and I don't want to tell him because we've only been married for a year and I want our marriage to work. It's just that I wish I was as crazy about him now as when we first met. I need help!!!
By Nicole39 9 years ago :: Marriage
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