IS MY MUM RACIST OR IS SHE TRYING TO BRING ME UP THE WAY SHE WAS BROUGHT UP?

im indian, and some time ago i met this really nice somali guy, we started going out but i didnt tell my parents because i knew my parents wont accept the fact that he is black.
they recently found a few pictures of us together and she went crazy at me telling me to break it off because she wont accept it.
duing my school holidays, she wouldnt let me go out, not even with my friends because she thought i was going to see him. i was at home for the whole summer holidays. She also told me that i cannot talk to any other black guys. she made me delete their numbers.
she says that if i ever marry him, il bring shame on the family and everyone will talk about us.
what should i do?
By mzthang 10 years ago :: Dating
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