am i right to be hurt and upset and shocked in what happened?

i had a wisdom tooth pulled out, i was in extreme pain and i asked my partner several times to come to mine and just be there for me, i ended up having to beg her to come and she said no, she was too tired and couldnt be bothered to catch a train.
i then spoke to her later that night, and she was out on the town getting drunk.
i then proceeded to inform my partner that i was extremly hurt and upset as i really needed her and she didnt seem to understand what the big fuss was.
i was extremly hurt as if she was the one to be in pain and needing me, she wouldnt of had to ask me to come over, i would have been there for her. no questions asked.


By nannywally 9 years ago :: Dating
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