I really need to know.. What kind of pain is his wife going through?????..

I HAD been having an affiar with a married man for about a year and a half.. our love goes so deep.. he is bored with his wife she doesnt excite him like i do.. hes about 15 years older than me, his wife busted us not long ago at a hotel... hes had to move out of his home... into a flat. we go out for drinks and the sparks fly our intercourse is heated and I love him... they are not divorced as of yet..I'm very young (18) and just wanted to know what pain his wife is going through??? when i initally met him.. he said his wife and him constantly fight and they sleep in seperate bed he told me he hated his wife and was only there cause sh'd take him to the "cleaners." and take all his cars and money... I am so confused with my life. after the wife intercepting us at the hotel and the things she said.. I realised he had been lying about everything.. but he wont let go of me.. and as much as I push him away he comes back for more and more,,, he says he loves me and wants to be with me.... and that hes never experienced a connection like this. I do feel awful and having come to my senses about what I have done.. I really would llike to no what/how his wife is feeling.. is she alright? I know she loves him dearly... and to make up for his cheating he bought her 10000 dollars worth of gucci and prada. as well as a bvglari diamond ring... he had to mortgage his home to do so.. his children (which i did not know exsisted) are very young. Is this woman OK?