Am I wrong for not wanting to have a baby n a messed up situation?

My fiance wants to have a baby. We r and have been struggling to stay togethr with other issues (infidelity, irresponsibility, partying evry nite, etc) I am not opposed to having a baby ever I just feel that we need to work on our issues then we can work on having a baby. I believe having a baby will confuse the situation even more. He already has an issue with going to the club every nite, so then I will be stuck alone n the house but with a baby....I shouldn't be punished for using the good sense that God gave me. Now he is mad because we just had this conversation, so he is spending the night at his mothers...I can't take too much more of this.
By OliviaOlivia 9 years ago :: Marriage
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