Pleasing Myself with a girlfriend.

Normally, I wouldn't share this with the world. And I'm trying to see if I can trust people.

For those of you that have read my past two posts, I have a girlfriend that I've been dating for eight months now.

Eight months ago, I said I'd stop pleasing myself.
I still am.

I constantly get pissed off at myself for doing it.
I want to stop. I really do. I've looked all over the internet for answers.

Nothing.

I know, It's supposedly "healthy" to make your "private" bigger.

You may want to know why I'd like to stop.
I personally don't know. My mind just wants to.

Please, don't just say "oh, it's healthy, forget it. Do it twice a day everyday"
Please, if you have anything, please say it.



Like I said, I've wanted to stop for a long time now. And normally, I wouldn't share this with the world.

Please help me out here!

And, in advance, if you do comment this.
THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH! Cause anything Helps.
By DoughmanDan 9 years ago :: Dating
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