I have been seeing someone and want to know if i should end the relationship

We started dating 9 months ago and it was great up until about 2 months ago. He would call me and text me frequently throughout the day and tell me he missed me and loved me. He came over just about every day and he was affectionate but not overly affectionate, we had sex probably 2 times a week. In the last couple of months he says he misses doing things with his friends and he needs to spend time with them some and also that he needs to stay home a few nights a week to get things done around his house. He doesnt show affection like he usto and doesnt seem to be interested in sex at all unless i initiate it. We can go for 3 or 4 days without seeing each other and he is fine with that but i am not. He claims its because the newness has worn off and that he just isnt an affectionate kind of guy. I love him very much and he says he loves me and does not want us to end our relationship. Im just not convinced he is telling the truth because of the drastic change in behavior. I dont know what to do because i dont want to be in a relationship if he doesnt really feel the same about me as i do him.....
By CaringRN 9 years ago :: Dating
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