Should I choose my family over the man I love?

He is my husbands soon to be ex brother in law. I have been seeing him for 8 years behind my husbands back. We got caught, but my husband still wants me around. I am afraid to leave my husband for the man I love because I know that my family is gonna disapprove. He is fourteen years older than me and the uncle to my children. But they love him and he loves them. I am so at ease with him and can be myself. He makes me feel comfortable in my own skin and treats me really good. I just dont know how to go about all this with my family. I dont want them turning against my kids for something I have done. I am really close to them and dont wanna lose them.
By CONFUSEDASHECK 8 years ago :: Dating
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