My husband and I are having a diffucult time. I stayed home from work because i am depressed about everything

we have been married now for a little over a year. he's the type of man that is very critical at times. Everyday now he finding something to complain about that I have done. It can be as small as me not putting the dishes in the dishwasher correctly, amongst other things. He has some financial problems as well and it has taken it's toll on me. He's very careless when it comes to spending. He's also very moody at times. Well last night I just got fed up and extremly upset, and I called my Pastor and cryed to her about what's going on in my life. I believe that I told her too much, now I'm ashamed of what was told. I've always had very low self esteem, and this situation has me feeling very uneasy about going to church on Sunday and facing her. I know she wouldn't judge me or my husband, but I am feeling so uneasy about what I said. I also have to sing a solo on Sunday and I want to back down on doing that as well. Please help. I'm trying not to go in to a deep depression. Thanks