Am I being paranoid or is there any legitimacy to what I'm doing?

Throughout my life, I have been betrayed by many of my friends who I thought I could trust. Recently, I've befriended new people, including someone who I think I can trust and will be a good friend.

We've hung out a few times, but recently, I've been receiving excuses why we can't hang out, or sometimes no response at all. Surely, other people have lives and other things to do, but something in my head keeps questioning his motives, and if he even wants to be friends and hang out. I get the feeling that I've been lied to about his whereabouts, but I can't confirm that without being invasive.

Am I being overly paranoid and skeptical? Or should I just let this go?
I know I'm being vague and cryptic when I ask this, so if you'd like more details I'll be happy to share.
By Andy14 9 years ago :: Friends
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