Phone Sex!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'd posted a question last week titled "Should we stop speaking?" and I appreciated all of your comments AND I APOLOGIZE IN ADVANCE FOR THIS LONG POST. However, here is the problem this week, we've gone from just speaking to having phone sex almost every night. It's sooooooooooooooooooooooooo wrong because we're both married but it feels soooooooooooooooooooooooo right.

I think that I've figured out what the problem is. My husband totally ignores me by literally spending 99.99% of his time on his computer watching animation and playing games. The other 0.1% of the time when he gets off his PC, he goes to get food, gym, shower and right back on his PC. It's so bad that he sometimes doesn't come to bed at all some nites, when I try to approach him about it, he says that I'm miserable and I like to argue which I think is ridiculous because all I'm asking for is some of his attention.

If you've read my previous post, you'll learn how I feel about my "Married" friend in Canada. I've tried ignoring his phone calls for a few days, but I get so lonely at nights that I have no choice but to pick up and the mere sound of his voice makes me OH SO WET!!!!!!!!!!!... OMG... I know that I'm having an affair over the phone but I feel like I have no control over it because I don't get the attention that I need at home. Are there any other suggestions, I really don't want to go down the divorce road because I love my husband but as far as I'm concerned, there are no other solutions to this problem. What do you guys think? I'm desperate for some opinions AGAIN!!!
By truestar 9 years ago :: Marriage
  • Rafael Morales
    MA-MS, MHT-MHRS
    I have extensive training and expertise in clinical, counseling, transpersonal/integral psychology and coaching. I provide support to those willing to work on themselves… $2.75/minute
       4.84/5
  • Iain A. Morrison
    MA Psych Cert Ed.
    Loving attachment is probably the greatest source of our happiness - I can help if it is going wrong - or manage the hurt if its over $2.00/minute
       4.82/5
  • View More Experts
    10