Are my cousins inappropriate?

One of my cousins just came from out of town to visit her sister and I. Now, they're always trying to smack/grab/caress my butt. Or we'll be in the middle of a conversation and one of them will suddenly grab my boobs. It's just...weird. They do this when we're all three together, just two of us, in front of people etc.

One of my cousins flashes her boobs to me, or her sister and they think it's hilarious. I hate it, I tell them I don't like that, I slap their hands away, I yell, curse, etc. But they just think it's funny as hell but I seriously don't. The want to watch porn with me, they are always overly descriptive about their sex lives around me. It's so weird, and it makes me sick! The thing is, we're all over 20, two of us are straight and we're FAMILY! They say it's because I'm such a 'prude' and they find it funny to make me uncomfortable. I don't know where this behavior came from, they never did this as kids.

Then, we were at a party last night and I was talking to my oldest cousins friend about it and she just brushed it off and said "Oh yeah, its totally normal. No big deal. Me and my sisters are always doing that!' Like it was nothing. Honestly, I'm an only child, so I can't say if it's so called 'normal' but how the hell is this normal and 'no big deal?'
By 9 years ago :: Family (Extended)
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