Is Love going to be Enough?

I have been with a guy for a year and a half.....he has 5 kids with four different women. I was never ok with his history but was not that bad since his kids don't live in our city. I have yet to meet 4 of them but one has been living with us for 3 months now in my condo. I feel like I lost myself my private place my home.

The guy is noticing that I am having a hard time dealing with his daughter being here. He brought up the point that it might come to having all 5 live with us one day, might never happen either but he wants that option. I told him I don't think that is what I want. I don't mind spending vacations with them but to have them all live with us?

We've decided that he would move out with his daughter to give me my space back and we'd still date and I would try to decide if love is enough and I am able to cope with his life.

If I'm being honest with myself we don't want the same thing......but I love him and want to be with him.
By Trustless 9 years ago :: Family (Extended)
  • Robert Betancourt
    MA, Professional Counseling,Therapist
    Emotional Healing-25+ years experience in helping people find solutions that work. "one of the best therapists here" $2.49/minute
  • Iain A. Morrison
    MA Psych Cert Ed.
    Loving attachment is probably the greatest source of our happiness - I can help if it is going wrong - or manage the hurt if its over $2.00/minute
  • View More Experts