17 year old female...36 year old married man plz help me!!!?

Plz do not judge me. Ok so I recently met the greatest man ever. He has everything including a wife. They have only been married for 6 months( She has 3 kids that arent his). He says he really doesnt love her. I have always crushed on him but a mutual friend of ours told him about my infatuation. So the man came to me and told me that he found me attractive and that we should text each other. So we have been texting and conversating over the phone. He tells me how beautiful he thinks I am and how if I was his girl how he would treat me and he once told me that he loved me(which I seriously doubt.) He really is a good man: he is a deacon in church and he helps out in the community. His wife is going to be out of town for a couple weeks and he claims that he wants to show me "what love is." Im guessing that means sex. I am a straight A student and I always have been good in decision making. I'm a good girl. I have have really strong feelings for this man bt my question is: Is this just a plot to break my virginity or something more?
By 9 years ago :: Dating
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