Why is my wife blaming me for her mistake?

So my wife and I had a big argument about what kind of car to buy this past summer... I told her that we needed 4wd... She said no we didn't and was steadfast about it... She kept saying that it was a waste of money, blah, blah, blah...

Well it is snowing like crazy here in NY... My wife got off her shift at the grocery store, and called me for a ride... simply told her that I couldn't make it because I didn't have 4wd... She started yelling that the store was getting locked, and she would stuck outside, wah, wah, wah... I reminded her again, I bet you wish we got 4wd!!!

So after the 6th call, I took my phone off the hook... I was busy chatting with my girlfriend on-line and she kept interrupting the connection... Well she finally made it home at like 2am... And now I am getting the silent treatment...

I TOLD HER THAT WE NEEDED 4WD and SHE SAID NO... How is this possibly my fault? I mean maybe you can blame me for total lack of judgement by letting a woman decide on a car, but other than that, I did nothing wrong.
By 8 years ago :: Marriage
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