How can one person feel it's ok for them to have an affair but when the mate has an emotional one it's wrong?

If I can have a phsical affair with someone and my mate forgives me, why is it impossible for me to forgive him when he only has an emotional affair? I feel very betrayed because he does not consider he actually had an affair, he says he was just confinding to an old friend.
By Water 9 years ago :: Marriage
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