I cheated on my wife, now she wants to move to another state with our daughter?

A few months ago I was going through a rough time, I did some pretty bad things and one of them was cheating on my wife. I really messed up, I even nearly lost my job but Im on the right track now but she won't give it another try. After it all happened she moved out of the house with our little girl and I was only able to see her supervised for weeks. Now yesterday she tells me she was moving to LA.
I love my wife, I dont want to go to court; shes not trying to hurt me, she's a good person. I understand she's doing it to get away from the situation and I can see our daughter whenever I want but "whenever I want" is not going to be everyday like it used to be. We're separated now and even if I did take this to court I wouldn't win, I know I won't. We're from New York and it takes almost 6 hours to fly over there and Im working weekdays from 9 to 5 sometimes 6, 7 or 8. And it's not as easy as "go on weekends". I've tried and tried to explain things to her but I still feel in the position of "what she says goes because you fucked up". What could I do to make her stay?
By 9 years ago :: Marriage
  • Robert Betancourt
    MA, Professional Counseling,Therapist
    Emotional Healing-25+ years experience in helping people find solutions that work. "one of the best therapists here" $2.49/minute
  • Rafael Richman
    Are you feeling stuck, trapped in the same patterns that repeat over & over? Are you feeling angry, alone, unappreciated & unheard? I can help you. $2.85/minute
  • View More Experts