Should i tell my fiance i slept with our friend? Advice please?

I am 26 and engaged to the man of my dreams who i had been with for 8yrs, we broke up almost two months ago as we could rarely see eye to eye and there was a lot of tension between us. We were the most in love couple we knew and had great communication, never raised our voices at each other etc, before our break up all we did was shout and i blamed him for almost everything when really i am the problem but was too stubborn to admit it. We got back together last week. I am a very guarded person but my fiance was always there for me, helped me through all the crap in my life including two miscarriages and deaths in my family, he will never leave the house without telling me he loves me weather we had an argument or not, i really don't know why he puts up with me?!. A mutual friend our ours and my brothers is great friends with me and i have known him for 11yrs and he always has a shoulder for me to cry on, we are very close. Four weeks ago we slept together once and we both realized that it wasn't the right thing to do as it didn't feel right and we agreed to stay friends, after this happening i realized how much i love and miss my fiance and i really want to make it work with us. We don't have a bunch of money for a therapist so we decided we could work this out on our own like we did with problems in the past, the other thing that's bothering me is weather i tell my fiance about me sleeping with the other guy as i am convinced he will be really pissed and they will fall out and i don't want to risk losing my fiance. Any Advice?
By 9 years ago :: Dating
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