Why do I get upset when I don't hear from my gf all day-but feel weird late nighenshen she sounds extra happy?

Hello everybody,

I will try to get to the point. I have known my gf for about 2.5 years. We dated semi-long distance for about 1.5 years. I really like her. Sometimes I get sad or even weird when she seems happy.

There are a lot more dynamics to this story that may be important, so I may have to add more relevant information. I started seeing a psycologist to ask this very question. So far he has asked me if I get mad bc I think she is faking.

Well last night I was away on business and she was out with her family. I don't think she would be faking happiness then. I got a extrmely happy text at around midnight. I really don't like txts from my gf. I called her shady once. Long story short-she does have a problem that she is ashamed of-and she will often be unresponsive for long periods of time.

Maybe I'm upset because she seems to have more fun with other people. Maybe I'm too controlling. Maybe I have a trust issue. I'm open to any ideas. Maybe she's wrong-and I shouldn't trust her. (I know I sound like a bad guy-she's not perfect either).

Either way, I want to trust her and I want to figure this problem out, but I can't quite hit the nail on the head.

Any ideas!?




By Scoot25 9 years ago :: Dating
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