My wife refuses to hold a job, and she spends all my money. What should I do?

She takes our 2 year old daughter to Day Care everyday (which costs me $160 a week), then she comes back home & sleeps most of the day. She only wakes up to watch Soaps & Oprah.

She spends all of my money, and complains if I spend too much. I work very hard through the week, and it kills me to be taken advantage of from her.