What do 13 year old girls find hot in a guy?

I am just wondering because nobody wants to go out with me. And the ones that do scare me. Almost everbody in my grade has a gf/bf, so i'm getting tired of being alone.

I have a really good friend that is a girl that says I am quite a catch. But I'm a diver,an actor, and a singer which not alot of people find hot. I'm good at both things and wouldn't give either up, but I want to know wat I can do to become more attractive. Please help.