Are they staying for the children?!?

My husband had an affair, emotionally, with a woman he used to work with for 1.5 years. Last week, it turned sexual, and I've read all their emails.

In one of them, after gushing over how amazing the sex was, my husband starts giving her advice about where to go on a date with her husband, and she finds it amusing, as in "you're telling me where to go with MY husband??".

He writes back " I hope that's okay... I mean, we don't have another option. Our relationship has to be this way. It's the ONLY way. :( "

She writes "Yes, with small kids like ours...:

What do you make of this exchange?? What did they both mean?
By 9 years ago :: Marriage
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