I can't forgive her, and I can't get over my hard feelings. Am I not justified in feeling this way?

I dated her for four years and loved her more than anything or anyone. I did everything for her and tried my best to make her happy. I bought her nice things, shared all my interests with her, and wanted to marry her. But at the end of the four years she broke up with me and left me for another guy. I can't help but feel betrayed. I think that she was seeing him while she was with me. And the fact that she moved on so quickly makes me feel like those four years meant nothing to her. I'll never be able to forgive her and I don't want anything to do with her ever again. She broke my heart.
By AJJ10 10 years ago :: Dating
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