I feel that my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend acts inappropriately. He thinks I am being crazy. Am I?

My boyfriend is still "very close" friends with his ex-girlfriend. What this means is that up until we got together a year ago, they were still occasionally sleeping together and talked on gchat every day and she was still trying to get back together with her. When we first started dating I had to hear about her all the time, and I heard some pretty inappropriate stuff that made me very uncomfortable about her - like the fact that she tells him she still sleeps in his t-shirts and boxers. In addition he has stuffed animals that she gave him displayed in his apartment, stuff like that.

I have tried to be understanding about his friendship with her but recently I reached my limit. She was coming to our city to visit and wanted to meet up with him while I was going to be out of town. I told him I was uncomfortable with that and he told her he could not, because I was uncomfortable about his relationship with her. This was only a few weeks ago.

Yesterday was his birthday, and she posted on his Facebook wall. This would have been fine, except for the fact that she was told 3 weeks ago that I was very uncomfortable with her. I feel that this is an example of her inappropriate behavior. She knew that I, and all my friends, would see that and it would make me uncomfortable. I don't want him to stop talking to her, but I want him to tell her when she is being inappropriate, and tell her to stop it.

He just thinks I am being unreasonable.

Who is right?
By Daphne 10 years ago :: Dating
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