Should I fight for my relationship? Is there a fine line between fighting and begging?

My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago. His reason was that he didn't think we would last long term because we both are different and would have to compromise too much. He grew up in the country and I in the city so we have various interests. We have been dating for a year and we have had a great relationship and we compliment each other's personalities. We both have been willing to sacrifice and compromise in a lot of situations as it is a long distance relationship.

We haven't really been having major problems, and this break up was out of the blue. I feel very hurt because he did not communicate these feelings to me and I feel that we could have figured things out. I am very hurt that he didn't give me the opportunity to try to work things out. I feel like something more might be going on. He told me that he loved me and that I could find something better and I shouldn't have to compromise. I am so hurt and upset with this situation because i love him very much and I would do anything for him. I want to fight for him but I don't know how to go about it or even if i should. I feel like he is so stubborn and set in his ways. I can't let this relationship go yet, without a fight.
By Luchadora 9 years ago :: Dating
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