I don't want to have sex with my wife because ...

My wife wears pee pads and sometimes the smell is overwhelming. I don't want to be cruel about it, but she comments that I don't seem interested in sex(when I actually am) but the urine smell is too much. She occasionally leaves them in the trash and the dog will tear them up and make a mess, or leave one on her vanity area until it ferments and I complain. Any suggestions on how to open this subject without being mean?
By Coltman 7 years ago :: Marriage
  • Robert Betancourt
    MA, Professional Counseling,Therapist
    Emotional Healing-25+ years experience in helping people find solutions that work. "one of the best therapists here" $1.99/minute
       4.93/5
  • Milton Mankoff
    Ph.D.; LMSW
    Misunderstandings can create or escalate conflicts, but genuine incompatibility can also exist within relationships. Non-judgmental. LGHBTQIA-supportive. $2.75/minute
       4.92/5
  • View More Experts