I don't want to have sex with my wife because ...

My wife wears pee pads and sometimes the smell is overwhelming. I don't want to be cruel about it, but she comments that I don't seem interested in sex(when I actually am) but the urine smell is too much. She occasionally leaves them in the trash and the dog will tear them up and make a mess, or leave one on her vanity area until it ferments and I complain. Any suggestions on how to open this subject without being mean?
By Coltman 8 years ago :: Marriage
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